To them, different equals bad. But as Iâve grown older and started a family and career, itâs become an important part of my values to show up for others, for my friends, family, career, and myself, even when itâs not comfortable for me. don't fit in with my family. First Iâd like to say I understand. Iâm trying to be a âbetterâ person, and although I may not have any clue what the means, or how to go about doing it, Iâm trying. Iâm 18. I tend to be more outspoken than my peers, less religious, more bookish, more alternative⦠2. Unfortunately, many of us spend time thinking about what we âshouldâ be doing, rather than allowing our hearts lead us in the direction we really want to go. Realizing you don't fit in with your family is difficult to handle emotionally. You don't fit in with the crowd, so you can't sit back and agree with a matter you don't believe in. You have an independent mind. I just donât fit in. Accept you do not fit and be good with it as the more you read, grow and learn the less you will fit. My family and I work on different levels. But figuring that out as a teenager can be life-changing. We don't always fit in with our families as much as we would like to. I ask âwhat is the truthâ. Grow in your wisdom and spirituality. My older relatives who passed away were more accepting and understanding. Being mixed-race is only one of the factors that make me different. I feel like a complete outsider in my family. I have learned that its more important to work on being a good person. I ⦠I have convictions. How to deal? Of course, my family history does partly define me, but mostly not in the way that those people think. Take me for example. Learning what makes you happy is more important than trying to fit someone elseâs idea of a successful life. I yearned for acceptance, so I spent much of my time trying to be someone I wasn't. I'm more nerdy and introverted, less religious, and more open minded compared to my family. The thing is, they're really lovely people. I neither fit in with them nor do they treat me like a part of the family. You state your opinions loud and clear. For me, it translated into a low self-worth, no self-esteem, and reckless behavior. I used to handle it by doing my best to avoid groups where I didnât fit in right away. Hi, I don't know if this is the right place to put this but I [20/f] have never felt like I really fit in with my family. I am in the same situation but instead of feelings of depression from this, Iâve accepted that I am always going to be the âblack sheepâ. They are very insular, very involved with each other, and very apt to causing problems amongst each other if the others don't fit into what they expect of them the instant they expect it. Subject: I don't fit in with my family at all and I'm stressed out. Don't try to force them to fit into who you want them to be. You do fit in with the family of God. Instead, it defines me as different. They're also passive aggressive in ⦠My family (as in parents and siblings) don't talk to me much or spend time with me or tell me about anything that's going on in their lives or in the family. Everyone who knows them loves them, and they're all really tight but I've never felt like I belong with them. This sounds exactly like my DH's family. One way to help yourself is to make some time for yourself, to relax and enjoy what you like and then make time for the rest of the world, including family. Do good things to other people. Be happy with yourself. Anonymous: Anonymous wrote:I've always felt like the black sheep per se. I live with my father, mother and sister. For me, it translated into a low self-worth, no self-esteem, and more open minded i don t fit in with my family to family... 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